Heartbreak is Neccessary.
I hope you get your heart broken. I hope you date an absolute trash bag of a boy.
That sounds so harsh but it’s true. I can honestly tell you there has been nothing in my life that has taught me more than when I have gotten my heart broken. I learned about myself, I learned what I did and didn’t want in a man, I learned how I did and didn’t deserve to be treated and in a couple instances when I got my heart broken I learned how to love myself for who I am.
Let me clarify. Heartbreak absolutely sucks. Like so bad. And in the middle of a breakup or heartbreak it feels like the worst thing ever. Trust me I know. I have had my fair share of heartbreaks and I wish I could say I wouldn’t wish that on anyone but I would. I want people to have that life learning experience of a heartbreak.
So here’s my challenge to you. (Before you take my challenge if you have recently gone through a heartbreak, take time to cry, eat ice cream, devour some chocolate or do whatever other things you do to deal with heartbreak.) Whether you’re currently going through a breakup or you have had your heart broken in the past I want you to take a second to reflect. What are three things you have learned or are learning because of a heartbreak? Then I want you to take a look at those things and answer this question. Would you take away those lessons you’ve learned so that you wouldn’t have experiences heartbreak? I would bet you’re answer is no. If your answer is yes I want to hear your story and your three things! I want you to convince me otherwise!
If you are currently experience heartbreak or going through a breakup and feel like you are alone and are having a hard time finding your lesson and finding an opportunity to grow from this experience MESSAGE ME! You are not alone. You are not the only one to experience these feelings. Sometimes all you need to do is talk and so if you feel like you have no one to talk to message me please.